When I love, I give myself completely. The man I spend my life with can depend on me to be there every day for the rest of my life. Is this not the greatest gift I can give someone? Is this not what we're looking for? Didn't Lady Di leave Charles because he wasn't able to freely give of his emotions and love?
I have been in 3 relationships where I can honestly say I loved the man. From these experiences I am able to say that I get up in the morning filled with passion, and I go to bed the same way. I am a physical person, touching, holding, caressing. But I do not smother. We both have lives to lead, and I respect that, as I expect no less.
Poems, little I-was-thinking-of-you gifts and cards, are a part of my loving. I also try hard not to hurt with words, and to say what I think my partner wants, needs, to hear.
    I am a deep person, very thoughtful of life and all of it's complexities. In such, I need to discuss issues and views in order to help myself to develop my psyche, and to deal with the difficult, often painful issues in life. I am also very empathic, with a small degree of psychic ability, being very affected by, and reflecting, the emotions of those around me. The power behind a rainstorm can actually energize me, while a bright sunny day calms me. Thus, I need someone who is very much like me in these ways, or at least who possesses a psyche that is complementary to my own.
    I cannot function well with someone who is, by nature, gloomy or overly aggressive. If issues confront my partner, I am there to support and assist, if such is welcome. But such must be welcome. I seldom like to be alone, but need to be left alone when I am writing or researching. This simply means I need people around me, even when I'm working. Their energy seems to empower me.

The next two pages are thoughts and comments that Bobby had written.

They were extracted from his personal website and offer a special glimpse into his soul...